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| The chronology presented here is what we refer to as the Dependence Continuum. It shows a teen's typical progression of drug use. STAGE 1: EXPERIMENTAL DRUG USE (Late grade school or early junior high years) Intake: | · | Occasional pot-smoking, glue-sniffing. Usually done weekends or during the summer, mostly with friends. | | · | Easy to get high because of low tolerance. | | · | Thrill of acting grown up and defying parents is part of the high. | What the world sees: | · | Little use of "harder" drugs at this stage. |
STAGE 2: MORE REGULAR USE (Late junior high and early senior high years) Intake: | · | Tolerance increases with increased use. More parties involving kegs (beer) and/or pot, possibly pills, hash or methamphetamines ("ice" or "crank"). Acceptance of the idea the "everyone does it" and wanting to be in on it. Staying out later, even all night. | | · | Use of alcohol may increase. Willing to suffer hangovers. | | · | Consumption increases and pride in being able to "handle it" increases. | | · | Use on week nights begins and skipping school may increase. | | · | Blackouts may begin, and talk with friends about "What did I do last night?" occurs. | | · | Solitary use begins, even smoking at home (risk-taking increases). Concentration on fooling parents or teachers when high. | | · | Preoccupation with use begins. The next high is carefully planned and anticipated. Source of supply is a matter of worry. | | · | Use during the day starts. Smoking before school to "make it through the morning." | What the world sees: | · | Parents become aware of use. May start a long series of 'groundings' for late hours. | | · | Drug-using friends often not introduced to parents. | | · | Lying to parents about the extent of use and use of money for drugs. | | · | School activities are dropped, especially sports. Grades will drop. Truancy increases. | | · | Non-drug-using friends are dropped. Weekend-long parties may start. |
STAGE 3: DAILY PREOCCUPATION Intake: | · | Number of times high during the week increases. Amount of money spent for drugs increases (concealing savings withdrawals from parents). | | · | "Social use" decreases -- getting loaded rather than just high. Being high becomes normal. | | · | Buying more and using more -- all activities seem to include drug use. | | · | Possible theft to get money to ensure a supply. There may be a contact with "bigger" dealers. | | · | Solitary use increases. User will isolate self from other using friends. | | · | Lying about or hiding the drug supply. Stash may be concealed from friends. |
What the world sees: | · | Possible dealing or fronting for others. | | · | Possible court trouble for minor consumption or possession. May be arrested for driving while intoxicated, theft, etc. Probation may result. | | · | May try to cut down or quit to convince self that there is no problem with drugs. | | · | Most straight friends are dropped. | | · | Money owed for drugs may increase. More truancy and fights with parents about drug use. |
STAGE 4: DEPENDENCY (ADDICTION) Intake: | · | Getting high during school or at work. Difficult to face the day without drugs. Drugs are used to escape self. | | · | Can't tell what normal behavior is anymore -- normal means being stoned nearly constantly. | | · | Physical condition worsens. Loss of weight, more frequent illnesses, memory suffers, flashbacks may increase. Thoughts of suicide may increase. | | · | Difficulties with the law may increase. |
What the world sees: | · | Guilt feelings increase. Questioning own use but unable to control the urge. | | · | Low self-image and self-hate. Casual sexual involvement. Continued denial of problem. | | · | School dropped. Dealing may increase, along with police involvement. Parents may "give up." | | · | Paranoia increases. Cost of habit increases with most of money going to habit. | | · | Loss of control over use. |
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